Being Honest Is Best (video,Dating Advice)

December 1, 2009 by admin  
Filed under Dating Advice

You join an internet dating service because you are looking for someone that you can like, even come to love.They also are looking for a guy or girl that they can like or love also. So, in order to find the right one for you…and they are out there…you need to be completely honest with yourself, about yourself ,when writing the online profile, during the dating process and beyond.

One way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze a past relationship. What was right? What was wrong? What things really made you like that last date? Which didn’t? Don’t assume that just because you hated that your last date was so totally self-involved that they couldn’t see anything else, you’ll be able to overlook that quality this time. You won’t.

If you aren’t 6’1” with a six-pack to be proud of, don’t claim to be. If you are a bar tender, don’t claim to be a lawyer with a six figure income. If you are 40 going on 50, don’t pretend to be 30 something.
Remember, the idea here is to find someone who will like you exactly as you are. If you have lied in your profile, the first face-to-face meeting will remove all doubt that you are a liar…and probably a cheat, as well.
Then it is all over before it begins.

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